Life Update
My nan's gone. She's passed on the 11th December 2022 around 6am in her sleep. Her grave is ready for her, she'll be buried with her late husband. We thought her funeral was paid for but 'there's no record of it' even though dad and one of her daughters was with her as she done the call. So that means none of it was written down.
The funeral itself is nearly 9'000 even though it's a simple small service. Nowadays you need a certificate if you're planning to sell/rent a place so and that's £80-£95 more. The boiler needed fixing aswell so that's more money. That money for the funeral is from her savings. If my nan knew how much everything would be costing she wouldn't be happy.
Today me, dad, my brother plus my aunts went to nan's house to get things that we want. We'll be going again on Tuesday as we couldn't get everything we wanted.
I've gotten a few things from there. One is a black, casual dress. I'm planning to wear it at the funeral in her memory.
All OCtober drawings
Playlists
I've been working on playlists, songs that remind me or fit my OC's. I update them a lot. Check them out if you can!
Claire: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5hL16LabjA51AcBDOD0OxNLmXpAPoZJG
Cassandra: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5hL16LabjA4SwkvN_zYig4yQwWhLp0hn
Druscilla: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5hL16LabjA4_UvC9Sd75b0oAg0HF0zVe
Xxxxxxx: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL5hL16LabjA7rihgfUNHjZ-7zPf23C-rx
I'll add more songs and playlists. This is what I have now!
Scams on Discord
Recently there have been scams on Discord. Hackers are getting into people's accounts to send a link to your friends. Be careful! If you can, turn on your two factor two factor authentication!
If you're not sure where to find it, it's under your account section of your settings. Spread the word, don't click the link they send if you get the message! Keep yourself safe on Discord and everywhere.
Tell others about this, even if you don't have one someone you know may.
Stay safe everyone!
Taken this from https://robins-love-slave-blog.tumblr.com/post/125286067323/original-character-ask-meme-psychology-edition
Doing this for my Dragon OC, Claire!
1: What’s your OC’s biggest insecurity and how would they react if someone pointed it out to them?
I think she'd know and actally agree with them. She wouldn't be mad.
2: If your OC wants to buy a firearm, what it might be for?
The most likely reason I think would be learning how to human.
3: Does your OC behave differently around different people, if so with whom and how?
She gets more defensive and aggressive with other dragons quickly but is more fair tempered with humans and other hybrids.
4: Would your OC want to involve themselves in humanitarian work ? If yes, then for what? If not, then why not?
She lives with her human wife and minors in a town, so yes! She has a job as a bouncer in a pub.
5: How would your OC generally react to someone being verbally abusive towards them for no apparent reason?
She'd give them a telling off.
6: Does your OC have a realistic image of their own intelligence?
I don't think I can answer that...
7: Does your OC have any irrational phobias?
I haven't thought of fears for her before... I'm not sure?
8: How is/was your OC’s relationship with their parents?
Hates and is scared of them
9: Does your OC feel a pressure to achieve or are they content and calm with doing what they can at the moment?
She's more calm, she knows what to do.
10: Does your OC guard their emotions by being tough? If not how would they?
In certain situations yes. Most of the time she wouldn't I feel.
11: How would your OC react to hearing they’re adopted?
Celebrate.
12: What is one of the most primary things your OC feels that is missing from their life?
A parent's love.
13: What kind of situations does your OC avoid the most?
Being with dragons and letting her family go in the woods alone.
14: If your OC gets into a fight with their best friend, would they wait for their friend to make up with them, or would they try to make up with their friend?
She'll make up with them.
15: Does your OC consider themselves a good person?
She has been forced to kill before, I think she wouldn't think she's a good person.
16: Is your OC good at giving others validation of their feelings and making them feel understood?
I don't think she'd be very good at that, she'd try her best though!
17: Does your OC suffer from any mental health issues?
Not to sure on that one, don't think so?
18: What kind of intrapersonal values does your OC have? (values about their self, what makes them feel like a valid person)
Getting love from her family.
19: What boosts your OC’s confidence the most?
When someone says something nice about her. Makes her happy.
20: Does your OC hurt others often unintentionally? If yes, how?
No, she's careful about that
21: Does your OC hurt others often intentionally? If yes, how?
No
22: How does your OC usually show affection? Are they openly romantic or more restricted with their affectionate emotions?
Due to her not seeing it before she'd be more restricted outwardly, though it'd be clear she loves her wife. With her soon to be adopted daughter, she'd express it more.
23: Does your OC tend to hide something about their personality/essence when meeting new people? If yes, what?
That she's a dragon. ( She has a human disguise )
24: How would your OC react if they got humiliated by someone in a group of people?
I'm not too sure yet...
25: How would your OC process the grief caused by the death of a loved one?
She wouldn't take it well at all...
26: What is the most intense thing your OC has been battling with?
Trauma from her biological parents.
27: Does your OC practise any kind of escapism? If yes, what kind?
I don't think she would?
28: How would your OC react if a bully stole their lunch money in high school?
She'll take it back. Slap them.
29: How does your OC behave on the face of a conflict?
She avoids fights as much as she can and if they are human or a hybrid she wouldn't use her full strength.
30: What makes your OC defensive quickest?
Another dragon nearby
I enjoyed doing this! May do more, you can try this yourself!